The Ultimate Self-Care Cheat Sheet For Enjoying the Holiday Season
December 04, 2019
With all the extra commitments we have this time of year, it’s easy to let our self-care habits slip, but you and I both know that taking time out for ourselves becomes all the more important when life gets busy.
To help you show up as your best and most sparkly self this holiday season, we’ve compiled our favourite (and most important) self-care reminders.
Use long queues to your advantage
The next time you’re standing in line, waiting for a car park, sitting in traffic, waiting at the traffic lights to cross the road, use it as an opportunity to quickly reset and recharge.
Instead of using your phone to pass the time, use these micro moments to come back to you—to slow down and explore what your mind and body needs in that moment. Maybe it’s a few deep, cleansing breaths. Maybe it’s listing what you’re grateful for. Maybe it’s a gentle stretch.
When things start to get a bit too much, grab a pen and paper and do a brain dump.
Write down what's on your mind—your to do's, worries, intentions, wins, wonderings, questions, feelings, hopes—absolutely anything.
Don't worry about what it looks like or if it makes sense! It's the perfect opportunity to free up some headspace, process what's happening and shine light on what needs your time and attention and what can wait.
No matter what kind of year you have had, or what kind of holidays you do or don’t celebrate, I really believe December is a time to relinquish control and enjoy yourself, treat yourself, and reflect on the year that was.
If this does not come naturally to you, give yourself explicit permission to. Write it down in a journal, or a place you see daily, and keep reassuring yourself that a few weeks of a very long year is not much in the scheme of things.
Remind yourself that a huge part of the health equation is love, laughter and pleasure. You are deserving of these things, free of guilt.
Try one of these grounding techniques to regain balance and composure
Grounding yourself is the process of balancing and reconnecting to your mental, physical and emotional energetic self. It connects us energetically to the Earth and ourselves and helps us lean in to the present moment in a nourishing and powerful way.
Typically during the festive season, we spend so much time in a mode of 'doing.' Grounding gives us permission to switch into a mode of 'non-doing,' to slowing down just a little bit so that we can catch our breath, fill up our cup and show up as the best (or a slightly better) version of ourselves.
Here are a few simple soulful strategies to ground you in to the moment:
Go outside, take off your shoes and socks and feel the grass, dirt, sand or stone beneath your feet. Notice the temperature, texture, the wind, sun or the rain. Close your eyes, Take a deep breath, sigh out through the mouth as you soften your shoulders.
A great one at the dining table; If you are sitting, feel the chair under you and the weight of your body and legs pressing down onto it. Notice the pressure of the chair, or floor, or table against your body and limbs.
Hold a mug of tea or your morning coffee in both hands and feel its warmth. Inhale its scent. Don’t rush drinking it; take small sips and savour it.
Stop and Listen. What can you hear? Is the sound near or far? Notice and name the sounds.
More self-care activities you can do in less than 10 minutes.
List 5 things you're grateful for.
Put your favourite song on and sing along to it.
Go for a mindful walk around the block without your phone.
Create a folder or album of photos, videos and screenshots of quotes that make you happy.
List 5 things you love about yourself.
Close your eyes and slowly inhale to the count of 4 and exhale to the count of 6. Keep repeating this pattern.
Declutter your phone by removing apps you don't use.
Implement screen time limits on your phone.
Unfollow Instagram accounts that make you feel unworthy.
Journal using this prompt: what's been bothering you, and what steps can you take to alleviate your internal suffering?
Take an extra long shower.
Plan your day for tomorrow so that you can start the day with a strong sense of purpose.
Search for a 10 minute body stretch on YouTube
Get your heart rate up with 50 jumping jacks
Repeat this mantra: "I deserve to invest in myself. I am worthy of love, growth & healing" and any others that leave you feeling empowered.
Put the kettle on and make yourself a cup of tea. Sit and enjoy it away from technology.
Call a friend who always lifts your mood.
Look up your favourite comedian or favourite scene in a sitcom and have a laugh.
Tidy up your desk
Diffuse essential oils. My favourites are peppermint and lavender.
Watch the clouds pass by.
List 3 things you're really proud of this year.
Start reading that book you've been wanting to read.
Make those appointments you've been putting off.
Google "free mindful colouring", print one out and start colouring.
Ask for help. Reach out to someone who could help you with whatever you might be struggling with.
Send a thank you message to someone who has helped you this year.
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